Equality is Embodied, Oppression is Violence

It is becoming clearer and clearer to me that Feminism, or the general fight for equality is a totally embodied fight. The oppression of women and all oppressed people is largely an attack on their bodies and an attempt to control those bodies. I could get all Foucaulty with this but I wont, because it is simple really.

When you help to prop up standards of appearance and bodily existence you create a narrow (literally) mould by which we measure people. The more you fit within this mould, the more you are treated as a human being worthy of rights and respect. If you don’t fit the mould, your body is more likely to be subjected to violence. For example, we all pretty much agree that women’s bodies have been more scrutinized and therefore controlled (e.g. abortion and contraceptive rights, forced marriage, FGM, etc) than men’s bodies. I think its safe to say that this sense of a right to control women’s bodies and not just consider their rights basic human rights is because we have historically considered women less human and individual and more like public property. They are our mothers and daughters and in order to protect them we must control their bodies FOR THEIR OWN GOOD. Most of you will be familiar with this misogynistic and sexist rhetoric disguised as morality. It results in the mistreatment of women’s bodies to a really horrific level. This is what all sexist culture and rhetoric does: it is complicit in violence towards women and belittles the seriousness of violence towards them. The problem is when people who understand why THAT is wrong, do not understand why it is similarly wrong to seek to control people’s bodies in other ways. I’m talking about fat people. Being obese actually is far less of an issue to others than STDs and teenage pregnancy, for example. In BOTH cases if we assume that restricting and shaming is helpful here’s how it goes:

We tell teenagers that they are disgusting for wanting to have sex and should not have sex= teenagers get more STDs and get pregnant more often because they don’t know how to protect themselves and feel ashamed of asking.

We tell fat people they are disgustingly unhealthy and need to stop eating so much and get off the sofa= fat people feel victimized and bullied, end up hating their bodies and therefore treat their bodies like shit by eating a pile of crap and never getting off the sofa. OR they get an eating disorder and develop serious health problems related to that.

NEW SOLUTION

We tell teenagers its their choice whether they have sex or not, we tell them how to not get STDs or get pregnant, we respect their bodily autonomy=less teenagers get up pregnant or contract STDs.

We stop going on about people being fat and start appreciating all bodies (including fat bodies) for their beauty, abilities, and the human being they carry around = people are more likely to treat their bodies with kindness and respect, eat food that is beneficial to their health, get out of the house more, exercise, and therefore actually have better health. They may still be fat and not lose any weight, they may gain weight, but they will be healthier than they were.

But this is a bit simplistic, no? Since when is personal health something you can demand from someone else? Just like any other bodily choice (tattoos, sexual activity, clothing) this is something that people don’t really have a right to be concerned about. When you show ‘concern’ for obese people and urge them to lose weight, what you are really doing is finding a reason to demand weight loss from them because you DON’T WANT TO SEE FAT PEOPLE. I said it. You don’t like looking at fat people because for a million reasons it makes you uneasy. You REALLY don’t like looking at fat people who aren’t hiding their fatness. That’s really scary. It’s like a closet racist who feels uneasy when Obama’s on TV, like, its ok if you see a black guy on the bus but when you see one who has got the NERVE to be president that just irks you so much more.

But let’s get back to bodies. Racism and Colonialism is a clear example to illustrate it. So when people started theorising using a SCIENCE that non whites were inferior, their bodies became fair game. They were enslaved, raped, lynched, THEIR BODIES WERE TOTALLY VIOLATED AND DEHUMANISED. And right now its that same phenomenon reformulated with this crazy capitalism whereby we ALLOW bodies of those oppressed, non-white and non-western people to be exploited, abused, killed, raped. It’s everywhere, Mexicans in the USA, untouchables in India. We don’t hear news reports on the faceless people killed by drone strikes in Pakistan or bombs in Iraq, but every single person killed in the twin towers was painstaking identified and their families compensated financially (of course this terrorist attack was CERTAINLY a tragedy but I ask that all unjust killing be treated with the same reverence). It seems odd to compare this to fatphobia but they are born from the SAME SYSTEM.  A million other oppressions could be named and discussed in relation to these but I think you’ve got the picture now!

We need to stop supporting some bits of this system of bodily exploitation, control, and degradation while purporting to fight other parts. If you fat-shame people and then say you are a feminist, THINK HARDER. 

Liv writes fat and Feminism and everything in between!

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Here two awesome pieces taken from our speaker, Liv's, blog! Her writing is really diverse but I've focussed on two about fatphobia to relate to our talk

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You Don't Look Fat

When thinner people (especially people I love) tell me I ‘don’t look fat’ I get real mad.

Because aside from the fact that it is a huge part of my recovery to see and love myself and my body as fat - not curvy, not chubby, not thick, but FAT - it’s also reaffirming that this person thinks of fat as an abstract concept, in the most harmful way, as what it isn’t.

It is telling me that you think fat people = unfashionable, lazy, gross, smelly, unkempt, ugly, un sexy, [add infinite number of negative things here].

What I’m hearing is ‘You cannot be a fat person and not be those things’ .

Well let me tell you something.

I am a fat person.

I am counted as obese by the medical industry.

I weigh 225lbs at least, and stand at 5”9.

I am a dress size 16-20 depending on the store, on average a size 18.

Did you notice that that list contains NO inherently negative descriptors? It is just pure representation of fact, and WE attatch negatives to those facts because of attitudes WE carry around with us.

I am all of those facts, but I am not all of those negative things, let alone any of those negative things BECAUSE I am fat.

When people tell me “but you don’t look like a size 18/fat/obese etc.”,  all I am hearing is “you don’t LOOK like my preconceptions of what size 18s look like” and we all know what those preconceptions are, because we (especially women) are all made to internalise them regardless of our own body type, and fear them, and avoid them at all costs. You expect a size 18 to look ‘bigger’ or ‘less ..X..’ because you have internalised a perverted and warped idea of what the basic definition of ‘fat’ is – a high amount of adipose tissue. That’s all it is. Being a size ..X.. is all that that is. Being X does not necessitate Y. You are perpetuating the false notion that fat = unattractive/unappealing/unhealthy/etc. and that any attractive fat people are attractive in spite of their fatness. As if fatness was something that should be excused, or apologised for, or looked over, explained away, justified, or euphemised.

If someone is standing in front of you and they tell you they are dress size X, then that dress size is what they look like.

Can well-meaning thin people stop saying this to us?

It is NOT a compliment. It is not the right thing to say.

And the fact that you think it is one is one big fat problem.

I will not euphemise my body for your discomfort.

QUIT IT BEFORE I EAT EVERYTHING YOU LOVE.

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Some Thoughts on Thin Privilege and Employment

Thin Privilege is not worrying that you will be turned down for any job because your potential employer will perceive your weight as being synonymous with “lazy”

Thin Privilege is being able to apply confidently for jobs in the clothing retail sector, unaware that many fat people don’t even bother most of the time, as one glance at their weight marks them as instantly “unfashionable” by the majority of employers, regardless of how on point their personal style is.

Thin privilege is being able to apply for jobs where uniforms are mandatory as the uniform will undoubtedly be carried in your size.

Thin privilege is being able to find cheap interview outfits because more stores cater to smaller sizes.

Thin privilege is being perceived as “put together” when the reality is “I rolled out of bed and landed in this” because people have been conditioned to believe clothes look better and more expensive on thin bodies.

Thin privilege is not turning up to interview to be turned away after five minutes of non-relevant questions as your interviewer has already judged you as unsuitable due to their false weight-based assumptions and prejudices.

Thin privilege is not discovering a less qualified, less experienced, thin person got the job you were up for, probably because of negative assumptions based on your weight.

Thin privilege is not being considered “bad for business”, because of your weight, when working in the service sector.

Thin privilege is being relegated to stock room work because your weight is seen as ugly and your boss needs a people-pleaser up front, despite your incredible people skills and service experience.

Thin privilege is being paid more than your fat co-workers for doing the same job -  because of your weight.

Thin privilege is being regarded as “more professional” than your fat co-workers, thereby progressing further and quicker in your chosen career, due to others’ weight-based prejudices.

Thin privilege is not having to worry about unfair dismissal based on your weight.

Thin privilege is not being called irrational or neurotic when you voice these real concerns to your friends, family, and most importantly, your employers.

Thin privilege is being unaware of all of the above.

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I KNOW THIS IS UNHEARD OF but the Fashion Industry is Super Racist

By Umber Ghauri

Still processing the commentary I’ve been reading online about the October 2009 Vogue Paris photoshoot of Lara Stone. In case you didn’t know she was made to appear black. Was it racist? OH YES and here’s why:

Why not use a black model?

Many comments focus on the idea that these images are a positive and beautiful representation of blackness. If so why was it necessary to use a white model? I feel Vogue’s choice of Lara Stone was implying that a black model wouldn’t have produced photographs as good as the white model. THAT’S RACIST GUYS. Also let’s consider the fact that only white models were used in that issue, and many other issues of Vogue. This means white models are getting paid to be black and black models are getting squat for being black.

It’s racist to paint white people black.

It just is. Many commentators wrote that this is a double standard. I think its pretty damn racist to make black models appear white too. So, no, its not. Also EDUCATE YOURSELF on the history of blackface.

This photoshoot doesn’t exist in a vacuum

The mainstream fashion industry, especially Vogue, does racist things all the bloody time. There was the lovely photoshoot with Anja Rubik in Vogue Italia 2009 where the token black woman was her maid. There’s that fact that Prada didn’t use a single black runway model between 1997 and 2008. There’s Manolo Blahnik refusing to have Vibe photograph his shoes until black supermodel Iman called him personally. Less than 1% of Vogue covers have featured a non-white person. In 1999 top executives from Elle model management were filmed saying Africa would be a better place if it was full of white people and that a black or ‘Oriental’ model would never work on a Milan runway. They represented Naomi Campbell at the time. Karl Lagerfeld photographed Claudia Schiffer in blackface AND yellowface in 2010.  Jean-Paul Guerlain said in 2010 that he worked ‘harder than a n****r’ to make his perfumes. Victoria’s secret recently launched a lingerie line called ‘Go East’ featuring white models in eroticised ‘ethnic’ costume. Even when sexualizing exoticness, black and minority ethnic women aren’t palatable enough so they dress up white models to look a bit like them. Victoria’s Secret messed up in 2010 too when they did a ‘Wild’ segment in which they put all 8 of their non-white models (out of 34 models) in ‘tribal’-looking body paint surrounded by black men painted in a similar manner. The same show’s country barn segment featured one non white model. They also stuck a Native American headdress on Karlie Kloss, offending tons of Native Americans who consider the headdress to be a symbol of honour and spirituality, not titillation. A third of Native American women are raped in their lifetime. 85% of those women are raped by a non-native. We can thank Victoria’s Secret for adding to a culture which objectifies and eroticises those women. BUT I DIGRESS.

I really could keep going for a long long time.

ARE WE CONVINCED ITS RACIST YET?

Sources:

 http://www.complex.com/style/2012/09/a-history-of-racism-in-fashion/

http://i.huffpost.com/gen/853334/thumbs/o-KARLIE-KLOSS-570.jpg?5

http://cdn.trendhunterstatic.com/thumbs/racist-editorials-vogue-italia-stereotypes-a-black-woman-as-a-maid.jpeg

http://colorlines.com/archives/2010/12/victoria_secrets_fashion_show_saves_all_the_dark_skinned_models_for_wild_things_segment.html

http://i.imgur.com/SUZqa.jpg

http://www.foxnews.com/us/2012/11/13/victoria-secret-apologizes-after-use-native-american-headdress-in-fashion-show/

http://www.racialicious.com/2012/09/06/victorias-secret-does-it-again-when-racism-meets-fashion/

http://www.trendhunter.com/trends/racist-editorials-vogue-italia-stereotypes-a-black-woman-as-a-maid

http://stylefrizz.com/200909/lara-stones-black-vogue-paris-october-2009/